How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 01.07.2025 16:39
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Making more friends is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Ask yourself:
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
How do you recognize when your mental health might need attention?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
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Living to your full potential is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Can you tell me something about yourself?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Does not procrastinate.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Is the Donald Trump Bible any different from a regular Bible? Has Trump altered its contents?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
What is the difference between heaven and heavens?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Procrastinates a lot.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
What are some sex stories from your college days?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
What I need from you?
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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
What do you do when you are struggling to fall asleep?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
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Hangs out with loser friends.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
That's it for today.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Do not set goals—set systems.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):